Monday, April 25, 2011

Absolutely Magical

I don't know if you've noticed, but I love music. A lot. Like feel it in my bones gives me goosebumps type of love. I can't live without it. I used to be the kind of person that could sit in silence and read a book for hours, and I can still read a book for hours, just not in silence. I need to have something on, which is probably why my iPhone battery is always drained. It probably helps that my brother is a music producer and I have amazing friends that expose me to wonderful DJs and bands. But I think my favorite part is that I don't feel the need to identify with one genre.

I can listen to Britney Spears and then skip over to Beirut and then put on some System of a Down and then listen to Zac Brown Band. Throw in some Afrojack and Old Crow Medicine Show and I'll call it a night. But I will obviously only call it a night if my iPhone is on and playing some XX or Angus and Julia Stone, since I can't fall asleep without it. But I guess that's the beauty of being a music fan, I'm not ashamed that I like Britney Spears - yes her voice is nasally and some of her songs make me want to kill myself, but her other songs still make me smile, and that's all that matters, right? I hate it when people claim to be music fans and then give people like me a hard time for listening to the cheesy music I love. If you love music, be respectful of a persons right to listen to whatever they want. My ear drums can be titillated in a completely different way than yours, so recognize that and move on.

Now to the main point of this post...Arcade Fire. I've been listening to Arcade Fire for a while now, but they were never heavy on my rotation. I mean, I've listened to the Mumford and Sons CD 947 times (seriously, ask my iTunes), but I'd listened to their CD a couple times and I was really excited to see them live for the first time at Coachella. I didn't want to hype it up too much in my head because I didn't want to be disappointed, but I knew I was in for a treat. And let me tell you, I was right.

Their show was a total mind f**k, but in the best way possible. I've been trying to describe the experience to people, and the only word that I seem to be able to get out is magical. But that's really what it was. Magic. Like not possible for something to be so amazing, so it must be magic? Yeah, like that. I hope everyone that saw them at Coachella thought the same thing, but again, different strokes for different folks. For me, it was a mind blowing, feel it in my bones, give me goosebumps performance. For others, it could've been just whatever. I'm hoping it was the feel it in the bones kind for everyone.



If you EVER have a chance to see them live, please do so. They made my heart smile that night and I want your heart to smile too. I'm going to see them at Outside Lands in August, go to www.sfoutsidelands.com for tickets so our hearts can smile together.


Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Making the potentially painful, utterly painless



I picked out my first car the way most 16 year old girls in Orange County do. Spot it. Get dad's attention. Point. Scream out of excitement. That is pretty much the full proof plan to have it waiting in the driveway when you turn 16. I mean it, was a little different since my dad owned a car lot - I just casually mentioned how much I loved the purple pontiac firebird that was on his lot, and it just happened to show up in our driveway when I got my license (I didn't expect that, I promise).

When I totaled the Firebird, my dad showed up with a new Honda Civic and told me I had a $285 payment a month (gasp! the audacity!). I had that Civic for 8 years and ended up selling it on Craigslist in Sacramento before moving back to so cal. Selling on Craigslist is probably the easiest thing you can do, even better than AutoTrader. In my experience, everyone that came to check out the car was a serious buyer, and they didn't waste my time. They weren't coming to me for a joy ride. I don't know why anyone would want to go for a joy ride in a Civic, but you never know what people are into these days.

I was looking at a couple cars before purchasing the Honda CRV. Top of my list was the Lexus IS250, Hyundai Elantra, Nissan Juke, Toyota Prius, Scion XB and the Hond a Insight and Fit. Pretty much all over the place, but I knew I wanted a compact/midsize car.

I think it's really important to do your research online before you go into a dealership so you don't waste your time. The cheaper cars like the Elantra, Honda and Scions all come at a low base price, but as you pile on the extras it really starts to add up. So it's good to have a list of what features you can't compromise on (ex: sunroof, bluetooth, navigation). So after I had my list I went for a bunch of test drives. Because my dad was in car sales, he taught me to not waste a salespersons time. Let them know you are there for a test drive, and don't go during peak hours. Saturdays are the worst. You never want a salesperson to be missing a prospective deal to go on a test drive with you, especially when you aren't planning on making a purchase at that time. So just be mindful of when you go. Sunday mornings are great if you want to go on a weekend, and if you have the luxury of going on a weekday, go during the day, not after work.

Here is how I narrowed down my list - I took the IS250 off because for being a small car the gas mileage is pretty terrible. Also, in the price range I was looking at, I would have to get a used one and I was really excited about a new car, so that came off the list.

The Hyundai Elantra was a great ride and in the price range I have, I could've had it with leather seats, bluetooth, moonroof, etc. But they weren't willing to give me a good lease price on it, and since this is the first year it's been out, I didn't want to risk buying it, especially not knowing what the resale value is going to look like.

The Nissan Juke was probably the cutest car I drove, but as soon as I heard that it only took premium gas, it was out off the list. Pretty ridiculous for a small SUV.

I didn't go for the Prius because they are coming out with the fully electric Prius in 2-3 years, so I figured that can be my next car. The Honda Insight had really low horsepower, and I was convinced I would get into some deathly accident on the 5 because I wouldn't be able to speed up in time. I seriously felt like I was driving a golf cart.

The Scion XB was great and they had an awesome lease deal with a really low money factor (money factor is to a lease what an APR is to a purchase). The equation works differently so you can always ask the dealership to translate the money factor into an APR for you so you know what kind of deal you're getting. I ended up not getting it because they didn't have the color I wanted and I didn't like it enough to wait.

The Honda Fit was thrown out because I felt like I was driving a toy car, it's really great and roomy on the inside, and I totally recommend it if you dig the way it looks, it just wasn't my cup of tea.

The CRV was love at first sight/drive. I never used to like the CRVs. I thought they were ugly and weird looking until I saw a white 2011 CRV. I loved the way it looked and the drive was equally great. Super smooth, barely any outside noise coming in, I was sold.

So the car I wanted was picked out, it came down to getting the best deal on it.

There is an MSRP on the vehicle you want which is the manufacturer's suggested retail price. But there is also an invoice price. The invoice price is the wholesale price the dealership paid the manufacturer for the car. You want to aim to get your car at or under invoice. How does a dealership sell you a car at or below invoice? With help from the car manufacturer. When dealerships build up large inventories of unsold vehicles because of slow sales, they aren't ordering more cars from the factory. The factory doesn't like this so they start offering incentives to customers to buy more cars. Incentives come in the form of 0 percent loans, rebates, special lease deals, etc. Manufacturers also provide factory-to-dealer rebates and bonuses in monthly promotions. Dealers can pass along some of these incentives to their customers. It's good to buy a car from a chain like AutoNation because they buy in such high volume that they get more breaks from the manufacturers. Keep in mind that if you're looking at a car that's in high demand (like the Elantra or the Prius), you're probably not going to be able to get under invoice because the dealerships have no problem moving those cars. So you should have fair expectations when it comes to pricing. Aim for between invoice and MSRP on those vehicles.

To find out what the invoice price is on the car you want you can go to www.edmunds.com or www.cars.com. Once you know the invoice price start emailing all the dealerships around you. I emailed every dealership that was within a one hour driving radius. Go to the car manufacturers website and click on the "request a quote" button. You can specify the exact car you want (if it doesn't let you pick out exactly what you want, put it in the comments section) and ask them what the best deal they can offer you is. As soon as one of them comes back to you with a price under invoice, start bidding that dealership against the others. In my case, Hollywood Honda gave me $300 under invoice, I took that price and asked other internet departments if they could beat that. The internet departments are easy to deal with and you can do everything through email. Internet departments have grown over the years as more people look to ecommerce solutions, so dealers have a big group of sales folks waiting to get back to you.

Once you go into the dealership, it's a different story. Sales and financing are two completely different animals, so you have to make sure your salesperson has your back when it comes to taking you through the financing department. The finance managers want to screw you over and get as much money as they can from you. Honda had advertised a 0.9% APR rate online, but as soon as the finance manager came to talk to me he was showing me the car at a 3.9% APR rate. I told him it wasn't going to happen unless it was at 0.9%. I didn't have to do a lot of back and forth with him, but always be prepared to walk out if you're not getting the deal you want, especially when you know it's a realistic deal. Never get lost in the moment and give in because you were really excited to drive your new car home that day. Car shopping is a total chess game and you have to be prepared to play the game. They will call you back in, trust me.

I ended up getting a really good deal, and the APR I got was ridiculously low. I'm basically paying only $400 of interest on my financing...total. This took a couple weeks, but I think it was definitely worth the time and energy I put into it. Never wait until the last minute to get a car, because that's when you'll get screwed. If you're at the end of your lease and can't wait to purchase or lease again, just rent a car for a week or two to give you some buffer, it would end up costing around the same as a car payment anyway, and it gives you some more time to get the best deal possible.

Hope this was helpful!

Monday, April 4, 2011

No online identity? Get out of my life.



I've been helping Jason find a Coachella ticket on craigslist for a couple weeks now, and as it gets closer to the festival, there are more and more scam artists on craigslist trying to screw over music fans. Some of my favorite shady excuses:

1. "I cancelled my paypal last year"
2. "I share a paypal account with my husband and we are having some problems right now"
3. "I moved to the UK for work and cancelled my paypal account at the same time"
4. "I live in Dallas, send me half now on an H&R Block card and half later"

So how do I know all these people are shady - other than their lack of creativity when coming up with an excuse? When you Google their names and their email addresses you get back ZERO results. Yes, zero. You're telling me someone who went out of their way to get tickets to COACHELLA doesn't have a Facebook account? Ok, so maybe you are anti-social and Facebook is too mainstream for you and you were only planning on going to Coachella so you could rave around in the Sahara tent or be a square bear all weekend. But, you would still have SOME sort of online identity. I'm telling you, these zero online identity people just can't be trusted.

Do a quick test, Google the names of your best friends, girlfriend, boyfriend...if there isn't anything about them online outside of Facebook, dump them or un-best friend them ASAP.

Because seriously, that's a problem. I'd rather know someone with a BAD online identity than ZERO online identity. Sure, it may be that you video tape yourself in the bathroom and you're a mouth breathing high stepper, but that gives me some piece of mind. Very little, but some.

Don't worry though, the fact that you're reading this means that you have some sort of online presence, but if you find out the people you're close with don't, it's time to reevaluate your life.

Sunday, April 3, 2011

How to throw the best surprise birthday for your best friend


1. Vegas – check
2. Write a marketing plan for the company she wants to start – check
3. Jump out of an oversized cake – check
4. Carry her around on your shoulders – check
5. Two buffets, two days in a row – check
6. Rollercoaster - check

This past weekend we took Kelly Schmelly to Vegas. Well, I’m actually not going to take the credit. Her boyfriend Erik surprised her (he ruined the surprise a little before, but we forgave him) with a trip to Vegas and tickets to the Beatles Love show.

But we had a few more tricks up our sleeve, and the best part was probably when Feather jumped out of a cake for her. Yes, a pop out cake. Who knew they actually existed? While Kelly and Erik were making their way to the cake surprise, Feather was sitting ever so patiently in the cake for close to an hour.

So you’ve gotta give her props for that. She made good use of her time though and scared every person who walked by the cake by sticking her little baby hand out of the top and doing a creepy baby hand monster wave, or she would just shake the whole cake which made me really nervous because the thing was made out of paper.



We think she had a pretty amazing time, but I don’t want to project. I’ll let her tell you herself. :-)